Dating a girl with 3 kids

Potentially I'm barking up the wrong tree and all you've ever wanted is to be a part time mum to someone else's kids (on top of your full time job). If he's lived away from his 3 year old for half of their life, there will be massive developmental stages that he's missed completely.ĭoes he even want more kids? And if he has them with you, would you be happy for him to move hundreds of miles away and see your children only 4 days a month? The man you're dating is probably giving his children daddy issues as I write. Presumably this means he does no night wakings, no school runs, no packed lunches, homework helping, sick day covering etc etc. He sees his kid 4 days a month and lives miles away from them. The problem with this is, you're looking at a chap who isn't that great of a father.

You like the fact that he's a father, probably because you either:Ī) have some unresolved daddy issues of your own (no judgement, a lot of us have and I'm simply trying to explain that pull you feel towards him)ī) you want kids of your own one day and are looking for a future father for those.